I personally think that people just think about boning too much
...Um, it is a strange thing for a honkytonk/club musician to think? I know that. But I uh...wow, people just want to bangadangadangadang all the day and night, gracious books are a thing
However, I do want to say that I read a book once (unsure of sources or w/e idk) called "Constructions of Deviance" it said that strippers are like con artists, they are trying to get dumb ass fucking drunk dipshits to think they are getting laid tonight, that is their job, and it is a very old profession, almost as old as the other one that is old, so yeah.
Now, I don't go round knocking the shovels out of people's hands who dig ditches or telling the SLOW sign holding guy that he needs to pay more attention. I don't enjoy bugging people at work, but honestly, strippers do not get along with me in the past, and I really do not relish the idea of people ogling my girlfriend all day and night and junk.
So ... Uh, do I split tip money at the end of the night with the ladies or are we limited to our separate tip buckets? Not that the ladies need a bucket. I'm gonna shut up now.