Major turn downs

FF_FrEaK · 10-13-2007, 09:22 PM

Well I just wanted to know what guys and girls think are a turn down of the opposite sex. If you dont understand what Im asking here is mine:

I find it a major turn down when girls snort, laugh or scream out loud, sniff really loud until you can actually hear the boogers being sucked up...ewww, and finally if they snore.

Hopefully this will clear it up a bit. So just tell me what you think is a turn down.

w1ngzer0 · 10-13-2007, 10:22 PM

turn offs for me are women that are unclear, uncertain, and not aggressive. Physical would have to be mustache. I just can't deal with that, its nuts.

Usagy · 10-14-2007, 03:25 AM

Quite a lot of things can be a turn down for me.
Physical things would be: a moustache obviously...and (I'm sorry) fat. I don't mind a little bit of lard on the bones, but not too much.

Nonphysical would be: no sense of humor, arrogant, girls trying to change me are so out of here as well. Like ones that want me to stop playing videogames etc. I dump them on the spot.

Peace out

Silver · 10-14-2007, 03:29 AM

I don't like boring...
You know how you get people who seem to be the same as most people, wearing the same clothes, being into the same fads and the like...
No fun...

Only thing that turns me off physically is when a gal is too skinny. I just can't help but feel like they'd be way too fragile or something. Oh and those hard breast implants. While they can look good, they make hugging suck something severe....

Novacrash · 10-14-2007, 04:27 AM

I don't like (This is kinda blunt, but eh.) stupid/dumb girls.
Y'know the ones that are like, "whats 3x15 again?"
So, basically I don't like the Cliche'd blonde XD

No smokers. Can't stand that stuff.

Anyone like, totally stuckup turns me off too.

more I cant think of atm

Bang Bang · 10-14-2007, 05:21 AM

Well there are a bunch of things but I’ll point out the major ones. Girls who don’t take care of their bodies for example - they smell bad, their hair is dirty, their clothes have never met a washing machine, and are beyond a point of reason; overweight. Personality is another biggy, I have laid eyes on some pretty good looking girls during this short lifetime and as I have gotten to know them I have notice they are nothing but an empty shell, with little or none communion skills. Personally I can’t stand people who are impolite, and or lack manners.

*Chez Daja* · 10-14-2007, 06:17 AM

Turn offs:

Lack of personal hygiene.
Drinker.
Smoker.
Anyone taking drugs.
Flirting. (I find it very sexy when flirting comes in when the relationship begins, though.)
Vain/conceited men.
Guys who hate things physically/personality-wise about themsevles. (Whilst I feircely dislike vain men, he can't completely hate himself.)
Dumb guys.
Untrustworthy guys.
Secretivie guys.

I think most of those are what any woman would hate.

Priscilla · 10-14-2007, 04:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chez Daja

Turn offs:

Lack of personal hygiene.
Drinker.
Smoker.
Anyone taking drugs.
Flirting. (I find it very sexy when flirting comes in when the relationship begins, though.)
Vain/conceited men.
Guys who hate things physically/personality-wise about themsevles. (Whilst I feircely dislike vain men, he can't completely hate himself.)
Dumb guys.
Untrustworthy guys.
Secretivie guys.

I think most of those are what any woman would hate.

You've hit the nail on the head right there

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I don't care about apperance as long as they are well groomed.
But all of your points are what I agree with so i'm quoting yours if that's ohkay

dimmufan · 10-14-2007, 10:57 PM

I can't stand those women who act like their shit don't stink. Everybody has flaws so don't pretend that you are perfect.
I don't like a woman who doesn't take care of herself.
I can't be around a woman who says stupid stuff that she thinks is funny. Basically a stupid/dumb girl. I like my woman to be smart and well-spoken.
I won't tolerate a two-faced woman, either. I won't go with a woman who is addicted to heavy drugs i.e. crack, heroin.

OmniTense · 10-15-2007, 01:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chez Daja

Turn offs:

Drinker.
Smoker.
Anyone taking drugs.
Flirting. (I find it very sexy when flirting comes in when the relationship begins, though.)
Vain/conceited men.
Guys who hate things physically/personality-wise about themsevles. (Whilst I feircely dislike vain men, he can't completely hate himself.)
Untrustworthy guys.
Secretive guys.

I think most of those are what any woman would hate.

Damn...

*sigh*

I love you Chez, but it was never meant to be, hehe.

But my turn offs. It would be easier to list my turn-ons. I'm too picky, far too picky, really. It's not that I have a tremendous amount of turn-offs, that's just not true. I just am indifferent to anything and everything that doesn't hit on my particular interest. I'd imagine I would be a frustrating person to woo, if someone was so inclined to try.

I'm die-hard romantic. I think I love romance more than anything. It's just such a subtle and knowing art of affection.

But eh, turn-offs.

Mustaches probably is one, I'd guess.

Obese people. I don't mind someone who isn't a model. But someone who has a modicum of self-control.

Trivial people. It's so very hard for me to hold a conversation with anyone at all, but me holding a conversation with someone who is more interested in colors of make-up or the price of dresses or the latest episode of Big Brother >.<! I like someone who can make me think.

Crude. Someone who doesn't have a grasp of tact and manners. Someone who uses foul language too frequently and in front of people. I know that cuss on here quite a bit, but the truth is that I hardly ever say anything in RL and very seldom do I ever say a cuss word and when I do it's said sutto voice and usually in only my own presence.

Hygiene.

Talkative. Eh...err, yeah. Who would've thought. I'm kind of like Squall in that way, I suppose. (WTF am I talking about. I just said I was like Squall ><!) Either way. Don't start pouring dialogue out at me. I like to listen, especially to people who have things to say. But if you're telling me what happened the other day at the mall or what your friend told you...then I shall have to skull**** you.

That's about it.

-0mniT

Storm · 10-15-2007, 09:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FF_FrEaK

I find it a major turn down when girls snort, laugh or scream out loud.

Haha! Thats me gone then! When I find something hysterically funny I have a really odd, loud laugh and the occasional snort when I try to breathe whilst laughing and fail! Snorting out of disgustingness is gross though, and something I find as a turn-off in a bloke.

The biggest turn-off for me is arrogance. I hate really cocky men who think they are gods and can bang any woman who walks past them. Personality-wise, I also dislike men who cannot find humour in anything, cannot comprimise on anything. Bad manners is also a big turn-off. I also agree with Chez's point on untrustworthyness, although i'd never aquaint myself with anyone I dont trust, as a friend or anything further. Physical unattractiveness for me is shaved eyebrows, obesity and poor hygene.

Yuki-onna · 10-15-2007, 09:18 AM

Hmm...guys...

Well physical attraction, I think height (over 6 feet), good teeth, winning smile. Good hygiene, naturally. I do like a little scruff, though. Clothing...no preps O_o

On habits...no drugs, alcohol in moderation, no smoking (or at least not too much), decent manners, no chewing of toenails, no cheating, no excessive masturbation, no garage band country music.

Character...oh, you just have to click. Anybody can be friends with anybody as long as there's that...click thing. Clickety click.

Click.

**OceanEyes28** · 10-15-2007, 10:20 AM

Turn offs....

I dislike a lot of the same things everyone else dislikes. Good hygiene is appreciated, some degree of physical fitness, taller than me (it's not hard)...

I really like my Daniel boyfriend because he likes to tease and he's very playful. But he's also really sweet to me, and totally loyal without becoming a puppy man. I like that we can call each other on our shit. I like that he's persistent and doesn't give up when things get hard.

I guess the one thing I'm working on with him (oh lord, as if I'm his trainer) is the whole swearing in public thing. Good lord. I mean, I'm not above dropping a few bombs here and there, but not in a public place and certainly not above a whisper. I was just raised to be concerned about my manners in public and formal settings, and he didn't really get that as a child. He gets a little offended when I bring it up sometimes, but I think he understands why I feel the way I do. He knows how to act in front of my parents and in formal settings, but when we're shopping or out somewhere, it'll slip out. Like one time he dropped the f-bomb right in front of a Best Buy clerk and when I told him how embarrassed I was later he didn't even remember it happening.

He's worth that little difficulty, though, and I think it's getting better.

Anyway! Yeah, so... turn offs...

Unwilling to be teased, unwilling to laugh, bad hygiene, bad manners, laziness, submissiveness, dishonesty, etc etc etc.

And physical? I don't really have a specific hair color or anything.... Daniel is part Native American, and I find that pretty attractive. He has things I don't have, so it interests me. Dark thick hair, dark almond shaped eyes, tan skin.... boy parts. We contrast each other pretty well. I kind of like that.

Sasquatch · 10-15-2007, 11:03 AM