Boys and Gals How many dates? (18+?)

[.EcKS.]

since we're all fairly young people here what more do we like to talk about than dating, love, and what else sex!
so how many dates do you usually take the plunge and bump nasties.

Sex is something that makes our species above the rest there are very few animals in this world who get pleasure from sex, and hell we're the only ones with a-posable thumbs, and that's why this planet isn't overtaken by dolphins.

But needlessness to say sex is very important to our social lives and personal needs.

i know going by dates isn't usually the best method. But sum it up to a date a week. i guess...i should have thought a better way to do this haha.

[X SlAyEr]

is that okay if i comment?
because i'm 17 and you write 18+ and i have many dates with my boy friend

[Silver]

I don't think the rating really matters. As long as you're at the beginning of the 'dating/sex' part of your life anyways.
Anyways, I used to be a bit of a plaything and get passed around to a degree. Not that I minded of course, I am a guy after all.
Nowadays though I seem to have grown up a bit. Giving up half my old habits, trying to do the right thing by others, you know how it is....
So yeah, nowadays I still have nothing against sex outside of marriage, but I do believe you have to get to know the person first and have a mutual respect for both your partner and yourself. Just cos something feels good, don't mean it's right after all.
As it stands, no sex with the last couple of girl friends. And I'm glad as it didn't work out with either of them. Still, the girl I'm with now is awesome, and if it comes to it, I'd love to make the commitment to her. I really hope things work.
Because of how I think now, I voted:

many dates i have to know this person for a long time

[dimmufan]

I'd be willing to get with a girl after the very first date. I don't believe that you have to know a person to have a wild romp in the sack. I just make sure that I put armor on my warrior of love if I don't know the girl too well. But if it's a girl that I really like I might wait a few dates to make sure that I want to make the commitment necessary for a long-term relationship.

[Casanova[OCAU]]

Hm. I think it varies. If it's someone I actually like a lot, am interested in, and would like a long term thing with, I might wait till I get to know her a little better.

If she's just smokin hot, and happened to be someone I met fairly randomly, then I wouldn't mind first date. As long as my er.. sword is sheathed per se.

[Usagy]

Really depends on the type of girl as well, has been that it takes months, sometimes on the first night of meeting somebody only to see her never again.
Sex with love is better usually, but it's far from necesarry.

Peace out

[OceanEyes28]

I'm actually kind of conservative when it comes to casual sex. I've kissed someone I barely knew before, but that's really the only random fling activity I've participated in. Then again, I'm 19. How much casual sex can I really be expected to have under my belt by now? Oh wait, everyone I know is doinking. I know a lot of people don't see sex as a big deal anymore. But to me, it still is. I'm a little weird about people touching me. Like... if I'm not comfortable with that person, I get really annoyed really quickly. I can't imagine having someone I hardly know being a part of my body. Maybe I take it too seriously. I mean, I like sex, that's not the problem. But it's better for me if it's with someone I know and care about. I selected many dates, but I'd prefer to be in a relationship. I care about sex too much to risk getting immediately left by someone I was that close to.

[Storm]

I'm one of few 18 year old virgins left in the UK I believe, and i'm not even a member of any religious group. I'd have to of been dating the guy for a while and built up trust and love. I'm cautious with guys I barely know, I can kiss and snog on first day of meeting, though i'll never go further until I know he loves me and that he isn't just someone who likes to get around! I can't give an answer to "how many dates" as it really depends on the person, but I'll go with that I have to know them.

[Angantyr]

OmG NYUUUUUUU!!!!! !_______!;;;; I remember my first date with Sasuke-same cause it was soooo supa dupa kawaii!!!!!! ^___________________^. Like I saw him and he smiled and then his eyes went all red and he used his Sharingun on me @_______@;;; and I was like NYAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!! but then I realized it was him and then I went and glomped him!!!! n____n~ KONICHIWA KAWAIIIII SASUKE-KUN!!!!! and I he looked at me all confused ~_~;;; I felt so embarassed BUT THEN HE ASKED ME IF I WANT TO GET SOME ICHABI RAMEN!!!!!! ^___________^;;; so we went over there but that bloody Naruto-Kan and Jiraiya-sensei but we didn't want to cause trouble but Pervy-Sage grabbed my ass (ò_ó)(ò_ó)(ò_ó) So I slapped him X___X and he just laughed with that dirty look on his face.... then Naruto started to laugh too but I chased him away ^(*o*)^ then came bak and the ramen was cooked and sasuke was already slurping so I grabed a noodle and begun to suck but it was the same one as his so we started to kiss (o^_______^o) OMG HIS LIPS WERE SUPAAAA TASTY!!!!! ^-^ Then we went to his place and he did his KAGE BUNSHIN NO JITSU AND MAKE LOVE LOOOONGGGG TIME AND HAD MANNY BABY SASUKES ^________________________^

[Gorath Sodom]

Dayum Argonteer... o' howeva you pronounce yo name, you a ***** in need of a shrink.

As fo' da topic at hand, since I'm black (at least on da inside), I skip da datin' 'n' go straight fo da rapin'.

[Govinda]

Originally Posted by OceanEyes28

I'm actually kind of conservative when it comes to casual sex. I've kissed someone I barely knew before, but that's really the only random fling activity I've participated in. Then again, I'm 19. How much casual sex can I really be expected to have under my belt by now? Oh wait, everyone I know is doinking. I know a lot of people don't see sex as a big deal anymore. But to me, it still is. I'm a little weird about people touching me. Like... if I'm not comfortable with that person, I get really annoyed really quickly. I can't imagine having someone I hardly know being a part of my body. Maybe I take it too seriously. I mean, I like sex, that's not the problem. But it's better for me if it's with someone I know and care about. I selected many dates, but I'd prefer to be in a relationship. I care about sex to much to risk getting immediately left by someone I was that close to.

Nothing more needs said.