Boys and gals.... How many dates do you have??

ekimeinna · 09-29-2007, 03:03 PM

i just wondering about this.. since most of us here in this forum were teenagers and of course we are curious of everything.. especially dating...

well just tell me how many and also if you could please tell me who among them really caught your heart (fell in love in other words hehehe) thanks and hope you don't mind!!!

Priscilla · 09-29-2007, 03:26 PM

Wow. I guess I will be first off the bat. I'm 16 ohkay =]
I have two people i'm interested in right now. The first one used to like me but now doesn't think we should be together. The second is interested.
I have six people that like me. I'm not interested in them though.

Uhm out of all the boyfriends i've had. I've had seven. The one that caught my eye was my ex ex and we were together for two years before things went downhill. We are still friends now though =].

X SlAyEr · 09-29-2007, 08:04 PM

WoW interesting Thread , I'm 17 so i don't really interested many of them just one , i fall in love with him , we still together now , and i hope we are getting marry

Kurosaki Ichigo · 09-29-2007, 08:11 PM

This is Intersting.
Well im 17, Im in a relationship right now. There is a certain someone who had my heart was my Ex Which was so bad, it lasted 5 days and ended cause of a drinking sence(Im not telling) And she sat there for a month teasing me saying she'll think about getting back together with me, After a fair i went to I met my current GF and that night after the fair my Ex wanted me back, its sad that she hurt me so long then the second i find antheor Girl she had to jump on me, ever since that night we've hardly talked.
Wow i ramble to much. I really dont know how many ppl like me, maybe 10 or 11. Oh well I got one so im fine with her.

**OceanEyes28** · 09-29-2007, 09:56 PM

I've had a few casual dates, but I really just go from one strong affection to another. Since grade school I've experienced these horrible crushes, but that's all part of growing up, I suppose. I didn't have many "boyfriends" in those younger years for a few reasons. The first, and probably most important, is that I was a late bloomer compared to my classmates. I had full cheeks and a small chest while other girls were thinning in the face and expanding in all the right places. I was a cute enough kid, but no one dated me. The second is that even though I really wanted to experience a relationship, I didn't consider myself ready for one. Even when I entered high school and other people were pairing up, I still thought I was too young to know what I wanted.

During freshman year, I ended up in a relationship with a good friend. We both cared about each other, but we ended the official relationship because it was more of a new title on the same interaction. Turns out, he was gay. He did admit to really liking my hair, though. I thought that was kind of nice. During sophomore year, I had a huge crush on someone, told them, and ended up being rejected. I can't take all of the blame on that one, as they lead me on for quite some time before breaking it to me. I'm not sorry it happened, though. I matured considerably after that single offense.

There was another that I liked and never told. And while, at the time, I had a lot to say about him, I really can't say much more now. There isn't anything to tell.

Some time in the midst of all that, there was Cesar (or as you know him, LocoColt04). We were both young and passionate people, and we happened to cross paths. We kept it as a friendship for a while, and then it grew into something else. We never "officially" committed to a relationship, and for a time, we would talk to each other about other people. But eventually, it developed so far that we stopped looking for other people. We met once, in a book store, and made what we could of it.

It ended in, I believe, February. Or something like it. He may remember better than I do. The whole business was sort of vague, and we both felt bad about it for a while. We didn't speak to each other for about a year.

During that time, I was asked on a few dates by other people. The first was a kind of blind date. We went for a walk and talked by the river before meeting his best friend and mine at the mall. He asked me out again, but I was sure we wouldn't work well together. His best friend realized that he enjoyed my company as well, and asked me to a concert. I went, had a nice time, but that never went anywhere either.

Finally, in the late spring, Daniel (Anarchy/Lover Boy) made certain feelings known. We had already been friends for two years, and I had given him advice on another relationship at one time. We were a little unsure how to proceed since we lived so far away. Neither one of us thought it was wise to commit to a long distance relationship. However, in June, we met for the first time, and sparks flew. After that, we really couldn't find attraction in anyone else. It has been over two years, and that same feeling is still present. There are minor crushes that pop up every now and then, but they pass. There haven't been any worth what we have now. He was my first real kiss on New Years Eve, he was my prom date, and now we go to college together. It's worked out.

By the way, during these last two years, Cesar and I have resumed our correspondence. We're still good friends, and that has been incredibly important to me.

So now you have my brief (and very nerdy) dating history, euphemisms and all.

**Andromeda** · 09-29-2007, 10:17 PM

I've never been on a date before, at least not one that you would really call a date. The only person that I had any strong feelings towards was my best friend. So there was reluctance in actually doing anything about that and destroying the friendship. But I got the guts to say something eventually roughly 5 years ago I think it was maybe 4. Seeing as I still haven't been on a date I think you can figure out how it went. The only problem was that it was not a rejection, at least it was not so clear cut as that. Which only further deepened certain issues. We agreed that it was not the time during college, though personally I would have liked to have tried anyway, but I was not going to press the issue.

Well we continued to be best friends and with that not exactly no and not exactly yes I stewed for a long time. I mostly got over it for a while, college kept me busy enough that I did not dwell on it for a while. I eventually approached them once again, but I do not remember if it was during or after college. It was very close to the end, but I wanted a real answer this time. Unfortunately, aside from feeling sorry for not giving my a real answer there was still the uncertain left behind. It was no more clear then, there was that window left open even if there was the indications that it meant don't come. But then I was finished with college and I was seeing my best friend regularly. What was only once every couple months became once a week. We were together more now than ever before.

So it all changed for me. I was no longer casually thinking about them, but now all the time. And then I find out that they are engaged. So that ended it all. We still kept meeting each week up until the wedding. I attended the wedding, my first. It was so informal, just as I knew it would be, so like my friend. And now we haven't emailed or spoke in three months. I agreed with my mom and myself that I should not be the one to reopen communications and rush back to continue things as they used to be. But I'm reaching the end of my line. Thankfully, I've managed to give over most of the issues. Now I just want my best friend back, I'm just worried I'm going to be fighting their attentions now even more so.

Maybe more than you wanted to know, but I've been with my best friend countless times, usually in their apartment. But we've gone to the movies and out to eat as well. They've been to my place too. Considering that it was one sided feelings, I think... (I still don't know if they felt anything or not) I doubt all that could be considered a date. So yeah, my seven year obsession or infatuation over my best friend is over and I'm trying to figure out where I go now. At least Oceaneyes got something over me if nothing else. I've never loved and lost, just simply lost. I never got the chance to know. Oh well.

Silver · 09-30-2007, 12:48 AM

Well a time ago I was one of those guys who was just wanting to party all the time, and that was reflected in the company I kept. A lot of dates, but as we were both wanting fun in every case, it never went further than parties and the occasional movie.

Then I met Rach again, a girl I first met when I was a lot younger. She was the greatest girl ever, especially in how it's impossible to hate her due to her nice and caring nature. I was a moth to a flame though. After going out with her for the one week, and hoping she was the right girl for me, she broke up with me this morning. It was nothing personal, she just wasn't ready to date again yet. Still she wants to remain friends, and as soon as I get over the breakup, I hope I can be there as a friend. It might take a while for me though.

That's probably also the reason I don't think I'll be dating for a while just yet. Still, dating a great girl like Rach opened my eyes up that little bit. I'd needed to change some parts of myself for a while, and thanks to my feelings for her, it seems I really am on the right track now. So I'll never regret the last week. Ever.

Usagy · 09-30-2007, 02:30 AM

Used to have some steady relationships, nowadays just dating random people on and off, sometimes multiple during same week. It's all good, I'm still young (22), don't really care for a fulltime relationship at the moment, life's busy enough as it is, so till then I will keep on dating random girls.

Peace out

Casanova[OCAU] · 09-30-2007, 03:41 AM

Well I'm 21 right now. Until recently, I was 'seeing' three chicks. Now, it's cut down to two, as the one that dropped off and I really didn't 'click' on an even level. She was nice enough and cool, but there just wasn't that 'something' there.

I suppose I'm after someone who is as ambitious as I am. It'd be unfair for me to go out with someone who has a lot more free time that I, as they'd expect me to place my career second and spend more time with them, while I'd not be comfortable making that compromise. It'd always be a win-lose situation. If they are as hungry as I am, then they'd value the little spare time we have together and we'd make the best of it.

As of now though, none of the three chicks satisfied this requirement. But hey, I'm not one to close doors or burn bridges. You never know unless you try right.

Andromeda, your situation reminds me of my own a few short years back. I was well and truly infatuated with my best friend, (who incidentally, is one of the girls I'm seeing now). She broke my heart and it took me down a massive down hill. I got over it, though it was a big changing experience for me.

Phantom · 09-30-2007, 08:09 AM

Well, I've had my eyes on this one guy I met at my College oreinatation yesterday, he just has those eyes that can make anyone melt, of course I did too lol, so you can call it abit of puppy love. I'm 19 by the way, soon to be 20 in February ^^. I found out that he is going to be in my Culinary evening classes so hopefully I will have the chance to get to know him better. As for dates, yeah I had a few, some good, some bad, some surprizing hot, but nowadays I just got alot of stuff wearing on my mind that I almost closed my heart on love... until I met "him", lol I hope I can focus on my work XD.

*Chez Daja* · 09-30-2007, 11:09 AM

Let's see...

Well, I've had two casual boyfriends and two more serious boyfriends.

The first two casuals were at a very young and immature age. One lasted a month it was THAT casual. I don't class him as a past boyfriend anymore, to be quite honest so I'll wipe him out of the equation.

As for my second boyfriend, we really hated each other. The only reason I went out with him was because he was one of those guys who NEEDED his own way. It was an on and off thing for six months until I told him to stuff it. I never really loved him, just had immense on and off crushes with him.

The third was a guy from here. Dante. You might remember him. We started our relationship. Two and a bit years that we spent together. We met up a few times. The last five months we were together, I knew we didn't want to be together.
I eventually got over him and broke we broke up.

The fourth guy, and current boyfriend, is Andrew. We met via the Internet. He was my first properly serious boyfriend in terms of committment and sex etc. He's very caring. He's probably the only guy I've been with that I think "he's a real boyfriend"... the others all seemed like such pushovers at times.

I cared very much for my ex at one point, but there was really somekind of a lack of friendship. I don't know why we were together so long. I considered leaving him many times in April of 2006.

I love my current boyfriend, though, very much. He's very kind and loving. Yay.