Bit of trouble

[Caije]

Today when i was cooking my very first meal in the Kitchen (A.K.A work), My Co-worker a 19 year old waitress who I have just Known for a week started flirting with me, She gave me her phone number aswell (She knows I have a girlfreind).

I Have a girlfriend who I am in love with very much, If I tell her that this waitress is flirting with me then she might get jealous, Thus might force me into quitting my job which I am attached to....,

I can't tell the Girl to stop as he is the Manager's daughter, I could risk my own Job.
If I tell my girlfriend she might have me quit my Job. Even though I am 101% faithful to her.
If I don't tell my Girlfriend and she finds out that this girl has been flirting with me and I didnt do anything about it I'm pretty much screwed, what do I do?

Please help me and remember, Don't Judge me, I am 100% faithful as said above and couldnt want anyone else.

Oh and leave out the Taunts of me not liking the action given to me, to those Immature saps who dont know what Love is stfu and Don't post here. I want advice not a lecture of how much A Not-sleeze-bag I am.

However you can comment on the Job, Girlfriend, The girl, But any bashing I won't Tolerate.

[Bunny]

Tell the girl at your work that you have a girlfriend to whom you are faithful to. If she does not cease her actions, go to her father, the manager. If he refuses to do something about the situation, sue her ass for sexual harassment and his ass for creating an uncomfortable and/or hostile work environment and neglecting to take action on a complaint of sexual harassment.

Don't mention the fact to your girlfriend unless it is absolutely necessary. This is not called lying, this is called witholding the truth because there is no real reason to say anything. A little harmless flirting is nothing. Now, if she started showing you her bald/hairy snatch or something, then you should probably mention something.

And then quit your job.

If the situation worsens any and you can't find a clear solution to your problem you have to make a simple decision. Which is more important to you, your girlfriend or a job?

(My penis wishes to advise the following: Ask both your girlfriend and the girl you work with if they would like to participate in a threesome. If you at any time think the answer to the question would be a "no" then do not ask either. Instead, bone both of them seperately and on the side. Fun at work; fun at home.)

[Dark One]

Okay here is what I think you should do. Love Is something that only comes around once in a long time. So Don't wast it.

1.The thing to do that would be best is tell the girl you don't like here. Maybe she well see that you are in love and you two can be friends. Or just tell her you want to be friends.

2. If that does not work find another job. You can cook at alot of people. If you Realy love her you well do something about these. Don't let it just go and not tell anyone. It well come back to hurt you. Someone well tell your girlfriend the The drama starts. Well thats all.

THANKS

Rrrrrrrrrrr Bunny Types to Fast o well.

[Caije]

Bunny: Thats Good advice, Your Penis went too far though, you know when they get a mind of there own your usually going insane so, I will take no heed to the penis's advice and just listen to your advice while I still can, Your penis is obviously slowly taking over your mind but while your Brain is still intact, I will take your words of wisdom and Try to tell the girl I'm not intrested and that I am deeply in love. if things go too far I'll give it up

Dark One: Being Just friends with her would probably mean she still holds those feelings and who knows If she gets me drunk maybe I may give in but, no..., I dont really like her but she is obsessed with me...., I could just fnd another job but, Not alot of Chefs are hiring rookies these days, so I can't really give it up just yet.

If worst comes to worst i would gladly throw away my Job.

[Chez Daja]

Lead the girl on then ditch her harsh-like! !

Anyway, Bunny is probably right. He's so smart. </insert dreamy sigh of 7,000 females ranging from ages 13 - 130>

Except for his utterly sarcastic...nessness...ness...

Originally Posted by Bunny

Don't mention the fact to your girlfriend unless it is absolutely necessary. This is not called lying, this is called witholding the truth because there is no real reason to say anything. A little harmless flirting is nothing. Now, if she started showing you her bald/hairy snatch or something, then you should probably mention something.

I agree. Although you shouldn't really flirt back in seriousness. See, I don't know much about BEING in a relationship that isn't long distance, since all the guys in my area are douches anyway. But there's a lot of differences.

For example; online, you can just joke or lead someone on and drop them when you like. Hell, I've jokingly done this in the past. It got me nowhere.

Online, You can talk about physicalness and not even mean it, and hell, laugh at them for it. Even if that is wrong or whatev.

In real life it's different. Because it's constantly face-to-face, and it's tougher to flirt without it actually seeming sincere.

So therefore, real life situations should be avoided at all costs. And that's your "situation"... JUST SAY NO, KIDS!

I think you should go straight to her dad. He'll be outraged at her behavior. No man wants his little girl to flirt or lead a guy on.

[Yuki-onna]

Originally Posted by Caije

I can't tell the Girl to stop as he is the Manager's daughter, I could risk my own Job.

Tell that ho to get her sex straight.

Also, if your girlfriend doesn't trust you, **** her. I mean, don't have sex with her, but dump her because there's no trust...or no...DO have sex with her first before you dump her...then make up, have sex again, yell "PSYCH!" and get it on with the manager's daughter/son/creature.

...in the parking lot. Better, the drive through office thing. People can pick up food and a show. Assuming you work in a fast food place. Otherwise, MAKE a drive through.

Also, if you were to involve turkeys-*banned*

[Caije]

In work today I just came clear that I wasn't intrested. She complained to her daddy on how, well I wasn't respecting her, What a ****in whore, Bitch, go cry to daddy when a guy ditchs you because he's loyal to his girlfriend. For the best of it I'm glad I was fired. Just that rent is due next week, I got a good referal from head chef and he recommended me to another restraunt. I just hope there isn't another attention ugly whore there who cries to daddy when she breaks her nail.

The system dosent work, i had to tell My girlfriend why i got fired I told her the truth, she thinks I had somthing to do with it, Destiny can come straight around the corner grab you behind the back and throw you into a bin right after kicking you in the balls.

But what did I do to deserve this? I told my girlfriend I had nothing to do with it, she says she belives me but shes been giving me the cold shoulder all day, maybe its because Rent is due and we dont got that much money, Either way i could be facing eviction....

****in free load peace of crap. One job that anyone likes then they get fired.

END OF RANT

[Dark Rider]

I know that sucked, but you got rid of that skank so live good my friend!

EDIT by OceanEyes28: If you would kindly edit your post with more content, I won't have to issue pre-warnings. Your last one was a better bet. I suggest stating your opinion.

[Zedian]

Follow your heart, tell the waitress that you are a faithful person and just continue talking to her like a friend, so you aren't appearing like a **** or anything.

If she still continues to get attracted to you let her know and when all else fails tell the biotch to back off...in a more polite way of course.

And just do your job, because jobs are kinda important to keep but so are girlfriends.