Is it wrong to push a girl?

[Drake Teglen]

First, by choosing to call a woman the name you chose reveals what you think of women in general.

Second, if you plan to hit, push, or in any way physically dominate a woman, that only proves that you have problems with your own insecurity.

Third, if I ever see a guy doing anything like that to a woman, whether or not she deserves it, then I will step in. Yes I will probably get sent to the hospital because I'm not a strong guy, but as a man I could not watch a woman get physically dominated and let it stand.

Call me old fashioned, but I believe in respect for women, and perhaps they wouldn't get bitchy like you said if you respected them in the first place, and when they do act that way, physically dominating them only makes it worse.

And if a girl started attacking me, I would try to defend myself and restrain her, but if I was unable to then I guess I'd just get beaten up. I wouldn't try to hit back. Call me a wimp, see if I care.

[Blacksmith]

Originally Posted by Chez Daja

Exactly!

There's a lot of talk of women playing the "I'm innocent" card in this thread, but I believe you just pinpointed an excellent aspect right there, by saying you will get hurt if you don't fight back is one thing, but by saying it's insulting to the woman is the best thing I've read in here. You are absolutely correct.

I've had many men struggle to be superior to me in power, during own, personal fights. I ALWAYS fight, and they're FORCED to fight back because it is impossible to hold me back since I -can- fight.

Just say I was a type of girl who was fighting physically with you. There's about a 70% chance I could win a fight against a guy who doesn't know fighting or self defence. Of course a guy needs to fight back.

However, I feel the point of my other post still stand.

I just thought I'd say Jintatsu is awesome for having such an accurate view.

This is something I've talked about before when it comes to women, the "Innocent" card, as you put it. See, what actually pisses me off is how some women will believe they are equal with the other gender, (or higher for some ignorant reason), but when they strike up enough anger they'll back off using the "You wouldn't hit a girl would you?" to try and get out of the hole they dug. And usually, this does work.

Now, I definitely believe women are equal with men, but when it comes to this bullshit, I wouldn't mind back hand-slapping the bitch to show her how equal she is. If women act strong, they better walk the walk instead of talk the talk, so to speak. I do respect women though who fight back, of course, shows they just don't talk shit. Other than that I just hurt their feelings as badly as I can till they cry

[Chez Daja]

Originally Posted by Griffith

Now, I definitely believe women are equal with men, but when it comes to this bullshit, I wouldn't mind back hand-slapping the bitch to show her how equal she is. If women act strong, they better walk the walk instead of talk the talk, so to speak. I do respect women though who fight back, of course, shows they just don't talk shit. Other than that I just hurt their feelings as badly as I can till they cry

Hahahah. XD

I know what you mean, though... As being strong, I do both the walking and talking, haha... Sometimes I've been up against groups of people who have bullied some small child. I know thats a little off topic, but still. ((This isn't to say I could win a fight against a group of people, I'm just stating...))

As long as you can hold yourself up during a fight, feel free to go against somebody that wants to start shit.

That last paragraph is something I do, mainly because I see too many dicks hurting people and feel I need to step in. I usually walk off before I can get thanked, mainly because I get embarrassed about helping others.

Still, though. Bitchy, "innocent" women seriously need to get persnality transplants...I think this is all from me in this thread, though, because I'm steering this off-topic.

[rJ floW]

I think you misunderstand one main thing (most people in this thread misunderstood it)...

its not like im chillin with these people and they got crazy, im talkin like, your chillin at a bar, rumours get started and some bitch you dont even know flips on you...

ive had a bitch randomly dump a beer on my head and flip out on me, i had no idea who she was and it turns out she thought i was someone else....i just kinda waited until she was done and then put her in her place, verbally of course and i scared the shit outta her hahahaha....and IM the one who almost got thrown out..i guess cause i said some bad shit HAHAHA but i DID handle it non-violently...

but its not like im choosing the wrong people to hang out with, but shit does happen if you frequent bars...and if anyone says "dont go to bars" I'm goin to laugh because thats the most rediculous thing ive ever heard

[Yuki-onna]

I don't think any male should ever lay a hand on a woman in an aggressive way, unless you're talking the kind of consentual loveplay some people get off on.

Also, women should do the same. Be adult. There are words to solve squabbles and fights, or many inanimate objects to vent your rage on.

[Blacksmith]

Originally Posted by Xantcha

I don't think any male should ever lay a hand on a woman in an aggressive way, unless you're talking the kind of consentual loveplay some people get off on.

Also, women should do the same. Be adult. There are words to solve squabbles and fights, or many inanimate objects to vent your rage on.

Sadly, since women also have a vagina & breast, and the average male is easily seducted, they use these weapons more than usual. See, it seems to me some women just can't act like an adult, they have to be right because they assume most women have a higher intelligence when it comes to argueing and debates, *COUGH* Generalizing bullshit *COUGH*.

If it were only that simple would both sexes get along fine. Sadly, with the finger-pointing era upon us and irrationality flaming through both sexes, being a "adult" will never happen. Course the never is basically the 2% of people who are adults, but never squander.

[Leroy]

When I hit girls, It's always only in a playful manner. Like, I'll slap them on the cheek, softly. I've never really been pressured by a girl enough to hit her, so I really can't say how I would handle a situation like some of the ones mentioned here. Honestly? I'd have no problem knocking some ugly girl out.

[OnOneRyder]

First I'll point out you sound like a complete moron. Every time you've spoken about a girl in this thread you reffered to them as bitch. Not "she was being a bitch" but just bitch like that's another title for them.

You as a guy are probably a lot stronger then a girl, therefore you shouldn't raise a hand to them in any way, shape or form. If you had hit that girl in the bar, you wouldv'e been shit kicked by any guy in there with morals.

As for pushing them, if you're going to push them you're choosing to stick around in that situation and you're certainly not defending yourself. Act like a man and walk away. I'm suprised anyone at 22 honestly has to start a thread about this for an answer. Didn't your mom teach you anything, or were you too busy pushing her around

[Hikari]

It is not right to hit anyone. Unless someone comes up to you and tries to beat you to a bloody pulp or threatens to kill you, you just don't hit anyone. It doesn't matter if it is a guy or girl.

[Alizée Jacotey]

It really depends on the girl. Most regular girls are easy to beat up, so why bother? If an issue comes to physical source, a man is more intimidating in general. If the girl is stronger than a typical man, than you need to get a good hit BEFORE she goes on her rampage.

A woman, despite being less genetically inclined towards physical strength, is a better fighter. They dont have the glaring weakness of genitals, and when girls fight, they sacrifice their bodies in it. Fighting a girl is like no other foe, indeed.

I only hit people when they do something stupid and they dont respond to verbal cues. But I dont hit girls because then they wont want to have sex with you.

Originally Posted by Tiffany

I'm of the opinion that if you're trying to figure out ways to get around hitting women, then you're probrably hanging around with the wrong type of women.

You wanna know what I think? If you are figuring out how to hit a women than you shouldn't have one. I am sorry, but has anyone ever tried to push someone down using only their head? Yeah, that takes some force, and it is abuse.

Also you reference to girls a "bitches" is just as vulgar, and upsetting. Chances are a women does not go crazy for nothing (besides the few). An calling a women a bitch is a good way to show peole that you do a little bit more to get a crazy girl to get crazy.

[Kinney]

I as a woman, standing here infront of you I agree that it is wrong to. My dad used to push us, not in the mean way but so that we could "learn some dicipline" so meh yeah it hurts at the beginning. I do think it is way wrong to do it, I could never do that to a guy, except for my cousin that I did it once and it really made me feel like crap. So in another words I do think it is wrong

[rJ floW]

Originally Posted by OnOneRyder

First I'll point out you sound like a complete moron. Every time you've spoken about a girl in this thread you reffered to them as bitch. Not "she was being a bitch" but just bitch like that's another title for them.

You as a guy are probably a lot stronger then a girl, therefore you shouldn't raise a hand to them in any way, shape or form. If you had hit that girl in the bar, you wouldv'e been shit kicked by any guy in there with morals.

As for pushing them, if you're going to push them you're choosing to stick around in that situation and you're certainly not defending yourself. Act like a man and walk away. I'm suprised anyone at 22 honestly has to start a thread about this for an answer. Didn't your mom teach you anything, or were you too busy pushing her around

Ye thats right, i call some women bitches, and if you were to read my first post i said i was goin to call all ladies in this thread a bitch, cause im only talkin about ladies who are ****in crazy and go off on anyone for no reason.

And i dont hit women, no matter if they're stronger than me or not, i've seen guys hit women, but who'se to say she didn't deserve it...a bitch bottles a guy needlessly, whats he supposed to do, walk away bleeding? **** no, you show her whats really good. In my 22 years of life ive seen some ****ed up shit and you gotta stay on point.

And im not askin if its right or not, im lookin for peoples opinions using a quesiton to spark comments and activity, my mom taught me well so go **** yourself, i love how people talk shit when they're in no danger, if anyone talked that way to me at the bar it would be over in a quick minute.

[Bryan]

Yeah, I don't agree with hitting or pushing a woman. There are no exceptions to that at all. It doesn't matter how much of a bitch she may be, you don't hit her. I believe that you should have your balls removed from your body if you harm a woman like that.

Even if the woman is huge, if she's beating the shit out of you, there's probably a good reason for it or you probably shouldn't be around her. Hell, if you hit women at all you shouldn't be around anybody, you should be locked in a cell someplace. Men hitting women are one of the lowest kinds of scum on this planet. If I ever saw anything like this happen in person, I'd be knocking some gut the **** out.

If she's hitting you, stop her from hitting you. There are other ways to it than punching her or pushing her down. Grab her arms to stop her, but don't hurt her, just restrain her from hitting you more. Dodge her swings or just take what's coming to you. Walk away or something. It's that simple. Again, if she's hitting you, you probably had it coming anyway.