Who has it easier?

[Yuuki]

Hey i'm just wondering right now and i'm not entirly sure.
Who has it easier Men or Women?Boys or girls?
I'm not sure if this is suposed to be in the Intellectual Discussion part
of this site so if it is in the wrong prt mabey a moderator can move it?

[Yuki-onna]

Throwing away all confusion of What the Hell this Thread Really Entails, I'd say men.

YOU DON'T CROTCHBLEED EVERY MONTH. CURSE YOU AAAALLLLLL!!!!!#%@!

That on it's own makes life easier for those penis carriers out there.

[Angry Moogle]

yep, us men have it a bit easier. We don't get to force babies out. We don't bleed every month, and we're good at parking cars (haha sorry, I couldn't resist).

But you know women have it good too, they still get multilple orgasms. They can get laid easier, and they have the power to control any man.

[Bunny]

Um.

Women don't have to force babies out. Nobody has to get pregnant. And if you want a child, you have no right to complain about the painstaking process of creating one. Also, women were designed to give birth to babies. Ontop of that, I'd like someone to explain how exactly a woman can say that they have it harder because they have to give birth to human life and then, almost in the same sentence, gloat about how pregnancy and birth give them some kind of empowerment. yay stupid bitches. I'll give you the period thing, but then again, you also don't really have a say in that.

Men have to deal with the unreal macho stereotypical persona that the world has deemed necessary for them to have. If you aren't a certain way, then you are against nature itself and therefore, extremely gay. Society pretty much forces a man to hide whatever emotions he has because it isn't the "manly" thing to do, therefore making you weak and unfit for living. And if women are going to use the excuse that since they give birth and have periods, both of which I have pointed out as being something that they can't really help if they want to do what they are supposed to do, then I am going to call the fact that men have to deal with women and that is there choice in the matter. Stop complaining about life, nature, and design. Get a real problem.

Yeah, I've never bled from my **** and I'm glad for it. But that doesn't make me believe any less that women just use this shit for an excuse on trying to garner sympathy. Get over yourselves.

I'm not saying men have it harder or women have it easier. I haven't really gotten in-depth enough to qualify a good enough response either way. I won't though, because it all boils down to the fact that each person, non-gender specific, has to put up with unreal "ideals" and things that our society has, for whatever reason, deemed necessary for any given person of either gender to have.

This is a stupid thread and a stupid question. No offense to the original poster. And yeah, General Chat is the correct place for this as the responses will be on par with the one given above. Perfect example.

But you know women have it good too, they still get multilple orgasms. They can get laid easier, and they have the power to control any man.

1. Men can have multiple orgasms, you're just doing it wrong.
2. "Getting laid" is not like finding the Holy Grail. It is not a difficult task to accomplish if you want to accomplish it. Sex is not special and it is not a hard thing to get. If a person truly wants to, then they can have sex at any given time. It is all a matter of how they go about it and who they got about it with.
3. The only men a woman can control are the ones who either want to be controlled or our mentally weak. I have never, not once, done anything a woman has asked unless it was what I wanted to do. Women are not controlling nor are they manipulative, they are stupid just the same way men are.

[Caije]

Well....lets see,

Women take ages to get dressed.
Men can throw anything on.

Women Have periods every 30-40 days
Boys Voice mature

Women Cant sleep around otherwise there seen as a whore
Men can

Men have it alot easier, and thats before preganancy.

[Angry Moogle]

Originally Posted by Bunny

Um.

Women don't have to force babies out. Nobody has to get pregnant. And if you want a child, you have no right to complain about the painstaking process of creating one. Also, women were designed to give birth to babies. Ontop of that, I'd like someone to explain how exactly a woman can say that they have it harder because they have to give birth to human life and then, almost in the same sentence, gloat about how pregnancy and birth give them some kind of empowerment. yay stupid bitches.

They have no right to complain? Just because they want a baby they can't complain about how scary and painful the process is? can you imagin if the husband said that in the delivery room?
"AGGGGHHH IT HURTS"
"Well you wanted this baby"
Because you know, alot of pregnancies normally have a man that want a baby too, but does he feel the pain? nope. Does he feel the greatness of being a dad? yes. Women also feel the greatness of being a mum, but they had to climb a mountain for that!.. So in away they should gloat about it, but that doesn't mean they have it easier than men, and I don't think the majority of women gloat about empowerment... "ah, I love being pregnant, I enjoy the empowerment I feel when I'm forcing the baby out my vagina."

I'll give you the period thing, but then again, you also don't really have a say in that.

Why not? for the same reason as getting pregnant? If they want to stop having periods they have to take some sort of drug, and that's not really fair that women can either have a period, or put drugs in her body to stop it. Plus I heard you can only do that for a certain ammount of months before you become infertile. Oh that's right, if they don't want a baby why should they care about becoming infertile? well some women haven't really made a choice of wether they want a baby or not, no one can predict the future.

I'm not saying men have it harder or women have it easier. I haven't really gotten in-depth enough to qualify a good enough response either way. I won't though, because it all boils down to the fact that each person, non-gender specific, has to put up with unreal "ideals" and things that our society has, for whatever reason, deemed necessary for any given person of either gender to have.

You haven't gotten in-depth, but your first paragraph is rather offensive, mabe you should get in-depth, or at least choose your words right...

And my first post in this thread was branded on a par to the topic - stupid, well, I took this thread lightly and posted in humour. I diddn't mean to annoy you by it.

[Bunny]

Originally Posted by Angry Moogle

They have no right to complain? Just because they want a baby they can't complain about how scary and painful the process is? can you imagin if the husband said that in the delivery room?
"AGGGGHHH IT HURTS"
"Well you wanted this baby"
Because you know, alot of pregnancies normally have a man that want a baby too, but does he feel the pain? nope. Does he feel the greatness of being a dad? yes. Women also feel the greatness of being a mum, but they had to climb a mountain for that!.. So in away they should gloat about it, but that doesn't mean they have it easier than men, and I don't think the majority of women gloat about empowerment... "ah, I love being pregnant, I enjoy the empowerment I feel when I'm forcing the baby out my vagina."

"Complain" in the sense that I do not believe a woman should be able to invoke "we have to deal with pregnancy and you do not" as an excuse as to why the male gender has an easier time with life in general. Yes, the process involved in giving birth is painful and overwhelming, but again, if a person wants a child they should be able to understand that the very pain they are complaining about is part of the process in which they decided to undertake with full knowledge that it will hurt. Also, I must say (and I full well expect to be quoted on this and have more than one unkindly response to my next few words) but any good husband/father-to-be would feel the pain. Not in the sense that the woman would, no. But the pain that comes with seeing the woman you love, the mother of your soon-to-be-born child, in complete agony and be utterly helpless to relieve her of it. There is a pain with that, and while it is not comparable to what the woman feels, it is pain nonethless. Gloating does not come with the territory, regardless of whatever monkey-brained excuses you want to sit here and rack your brain to come up with. Also that last line absolutely kills me. Do you even talk to a lot of women? Like.. at all. And not the girls you probably go to school with (after all, you are but a teenager in high school, yes?) I mean women. Yes.

Originally Posted by Angry Moogle

Why not? for the same reason as getting pregnant? If they want to stop having periods they have to take some sort of drug, and that's not really fair that women can either have a period, or put drugs in her body to stop it. Plus I heard you can only do that for a certain ammount of months before you become infertile. Oh that's right, if they don't want a baby why should they care about becoming infertile? well some women haven't really made a choice of wether they want a baby or not, no one can predict the future.

Why not? Because the period is a thing of nature and a male cannot help that he does not have to 'suffer' through such a thing. If a female is complaining that her period is so bad that she wants it to stop, and her only option is to take the drugs to do so, then she should not be complaining about having to ingest such things. All I am really saying is that a woman needs to come up with a better excuse as to why they have it worse than a man. On behalf of my gender, I am sorry that you have to bleed. I am in danger of being bald in the next coming years, are you? Don't complain about nature just because you don't have anything better to complain about. It is ignorant.

Originally Posted by Angry Moogle

You haven't gotten in-depth, but your first paragraph is rather offensive, mabe you should get in-depth, or at least choose your words right...

And my first post in this thread was branded on a par to the topic - stupid, well, I took this thread lightly and posted in humour. I diddn't mean to annoy you by it.

The first paragraph of my earlier post was not meant to be offensive and I will not apologize if it was taken as such. If you decided to be offended by it, I cannot help that. It was a strongly worded opinion that listed my beliefs on the subject at hand. But labelling such a thing offensive is, in and of itself, offensive. My words were not in err. They were absolutely fitting and just for the topic. They are my thoughts, not yours. I decided to use the words I used. End of story.

Not once did I say your post was annoying. I simply stated that a topic such as this would recieve responses like the ones surrounding my post, and as such, were not really on par with the forum is asking for of posts and threads included within Intellectual Discussion. I love it when I make a comment like this and people instantly apologize, as if I think every post has to gratify me and make me a happier person.

[Chez Daja]

Originally Posted by Caije

Women Have periods every 30-40 days

...You mean 23-28 days, I hope?? o_o Every 40 days would be fantastic. Unfortunately, it doesn't happen. (Except for girls who just start out...... sometimes it takes a while for their bodies to get used to the change.)

Originally Posted by Mariko

Throwing away all confusion of What the Hell this Thread Really Entails, I'd say men.

YOU DON'T CROTCHBLEED EVERY MONTH. CURSE YOU AAAALLLLLL!!!!!#%@!

That on it's own makes life easier for those penis carriers out there.

Marry me. <3

We'll have children of our oooowwwn </end song>.





...With that out of the way, this thread makes me laugh. Who cares about who has it better or not? In the spirit of taking a moment or five to care, I'd say men have it easier. They're lazy, too, harrr.

Seriously, though. You penis owners try out being a girl for two months. Betcha couldn't last it! Sissies. Seriously. Periods? ****ing hurt.

It's easier for some women, but for others it's hell. I dread that time of the month.

[She]

Well, speaking physically, yes guys do have it easier, but emotionally, I think we all go through hard times. We all have our ups and downs in that department. Having children, is an option, unless of course you have a man who wants children too, then the process of having the child is harder on a woman.

[Leroy]

Women do have it harder. That's just fact. Still, us lads have our problems too. Like, guys out there with small penis's. Thankfully, I'm just above the average, and have never had a complaint about my penis from any girl. Yes, that's the only problem I can think of. Yeah, I know girls compare their bodies too, but you don't **** somebody with your tit or ass, do you? No, you don't have to meet the expectations of being good in the sack. Sure, you can be an easy lay, or loose as hell, but that's at your own fault.

And emotions? Who cares. We all get a little emotional, the only difference? Women exaggerate and men are gay for crying. Hormones, periods, semen, blah blah blah. There's been like 3 threads of this nature. Same old shit, the girls whine about dumb shit, and guys like me get bad rep.

[Angantyr]

It depends, 100 years ago I would have said Men/Boys but looking around today women/girls have it better by far. So you girls have pregnancies right? Ever heard of a thing called a kidney stone? From the size differances in the holes and the thing coming out I think that would hurt possibly a little bit more, cause it can get sore down there

The masculine thing doesn't exist (well at least online, thats for sure), which is a shame because it stoped men from being pussified. Women have gotten so much freedom and they can get away with almost anything, I mean guys can get away with a lot too but not what nature intended. If a guy wants to get laid he can't be shy (well most of the time, sometimes it actually works) meaning you get girls that like you but unless you grow some balls then you won't get the girls you like.

Also girls can get away with being over-emotional, if you are a guy and show the slightest amount of frustration and depression you get called gay or emo (Damn I hate those insults) whether your usually happy and like girls. Also in relationships most of the time women can so easily screw a man over ruining the best years of his life (I say most because my Dad made the cash and he had everything done perfectly, my mum may seem like she got screwed over but the money was dads in the first place so she got an alright deal).

BUT in saying this, I am refering to Western and American women, places like Eastern Europe, Russia, Middle East etc it is terrible for them, so yeah.

Honestly I am not a sexist person, but I do notice that men can have it easier. No tby choice, but by our dear mother nature. A few reasons being that women can tedn to be more emotional. So we get hurt more often. I am not emotional but I know plenty of girls that are.....*looks up* We give birth, need make-up, waxing, high heels on occasion, we have to get paid less, treated like females, and pretty much have to do a little more than men when it comes to children. Including having to work to get our perfect bodies back in shape. If anyone has ever read George Carlin he pretty much metions everything. I don't have the time to blog it all, but I thinkmen have it hard soemtimes too. Men have to be told they aren't allowed to cry, and they can't connect to their children like a mother can. So I am sure it can be just as hard.