Is it wrong to push a girl?

[Tiffany]

I don't agree with anyone hitting anyone. We've got more in our minds than just "grunt grunt smash smash" if you catch my drift.

But I gotta say that I kinda agree with a few of the statements. I mean, there ARE girls who are freaking whacked out. I've seen them. The ones that just go around hitting/punching/biting for no reason whatsoever. And in those times I'd restrain the girl and whatnot.

But I hate as well those stupid girls who sit there and run off their mouths and then as Griffith said, hide behind the "but, you wouldn't hit a GIRL... would you?" That's manipulation at it's best. If you are a girl, and are going to choose to live your life being like that, then you can't expect every guy to restrain themselves when it comes to dealing with you.

But I agree, calling women "bitches" just because you can is harsh. Although when I see men making comments/statements like that, I normally look at the source. If it's someone I admire, or look up to, or like, then yes I'd be mad at it. But a random internet person? Hardly. It's no skin off my back if you want to call women bitches, but you can be guaranteed you're loosing out on alot of potential friends by being so crude.

Originally Posted by rJ floW

Ye thats right, i call some women bitches, and if you were to read my first post i said i was goin to call all ladies in this thread a bitch, cause im only talkin about ladies who are ****in crazy and go off on anyone for no reason.

Well I can tell you right now, that women posting in here that, don't agree with you, are not "bitches". We just don't agree with men putting their hands on women just to scare them into obeying them. That is very messed up, and I don't know what kind of person would think otherwise. not all women go off like that, and if this is a problem for you then YOU need to not hang around those types of people. Not THEM run obey your every command. The world does not work that way, and just because a girl seems weak doesn't mean that she is not carring a glock in her purse. I suggest if you come across "crazy" then leave it alone.

Originally Posted by rJ floW

And i dont hit women, no matter if they're stronger than me or not, i've seen guys hit women, but who'se to say she didn't deserve it...a bitch bottles a guy needlessly, whats he supposed to do, walk away bleeding? **** no, you show her whats really good. In my 22 years of life ive seen some ****ed up shit and you gotta stay on point.

I am sorry, but their are plenty of men that deserve to get hit in this world,but you don't see anyone here saying that it is right for either of the sexes to be hit. In all reguards if a person came up to me, pushed me in the face, and then called me a crazy bitch.....well for the sale of being nice, let's just say they would be very sorry they did. An actually the MATURE thing to do it, yeah, WALK AWAY! An the SMART thing to do would be to WALK away. The reason men hit girls is because they are too proud, and often thinks it makes them feel like a man. Sorry, but it makes you less of a man to even push a girl hard enough to make her fall. That is just cowardly.

Originally Posted by rJ floW

And im not askin if its right or not, im lookin for peoples opinions using a quesiton to spark comments and activity, my mom taught me well so go **** yourself, i love how people talk shit when they're in no danger, if anyone talked that way to me at the bar it would be over in a quick minute.

Not to be the barrier of bad news, but intimidating people on the thread isn't gonna make it right. In no way is it ever gonna be right, and anyone with a good head on their shoulders can see that. I have seen a lot of things in my time too man. That doesn't make itokay to do wrong just because I have seen it. An in fact you did ask our thoughts. An our thought stand on wether it is right or wrong. As said...WALK AWAY, OR just prevent her from hitting you. Simple as that. No making her feels like shit, and no hitting. It is really that simple.

[Lover Boy]

Since when was slappin a bitch uncalled for?

I'm playing the equality card on this one. Women want equal pay and equal opportunities, they should get equal beat-downs. Plain and simple. Sure, i'm stronger than a lot of women. There are other ones that i'm not as strong as. What about those bodybuilding broads you see on television? Am I not allowed to hit one of those? They're stronger than me, what do I do? Get my ass beat?

I've seen a woman start a fight with a guy, hit him first, and then start yelling about how he can't hit her because she's a girl and he's stronger.

I can't remember how many fights i've been in exactly, but I know that for most of them, I wasn't the stronger person in the fight. Did I bitch and say he can't hit me because i'm weaker than him? No. (For those who want to know WHAT I usually do, I talk and joke and make him look stupid and stall. Win the crowd and they usually won't fight. That, or stall until your friends who are the size of refridgerators come around the corner and they usually won't fight. That is how i've been able to talk shit to people who could actually ruin me and stay this attractive.)

So when it comes down to it, if a woman is starting shit, pushing her down is the nice thing to do. Especially if she's aggressive like the bitches in Rj's question prompt.

Originally Posted by Every Dumbass In This Thread

OMG IT IS INSENSITIVE AND WRONG TO PUSH A GIRL

Sure it isn't nice, I wouldn't suggest walking up to people in the subway and pushing them down, but what if it's a matter of do nothing or get hit by a girl? If a woman is yelling and shrieking and making a bitch of herself, fine, let her. Go get a beer somewhere else. But if she's being aggressive (especially if she looks like she thinks she can get away with it on the "can't hit girls, haha ****er" pretense), then set her straight. If a girl is hurt so much by the contact of being pushed down, then she should just avoid talking shit. I really don't know a single female who if they fell down on their ass would shriek and bitch about how much it hurt. It really isn't that much pain to be dealing with.

Besides, you bitches go on and on about how women are tough because they go through childbirth. Men should be allowed to slap you just for that.

Personally I agree in the fact that it should be equal.Too bad the question was about a guy pushing a girl, but now that you bring it up.YES it is just as wrong for a girl to hit a guy. In any case no one should touch anyone. If one of them resorts to violence than either block or move on. Violence never solved anything, infact it only got people arrested an thrown out of places. In any case they both would be losers. I know of these "crazy" women to, but I don't hang around with crazy people, and anyone that does is asking for it at one point or another. I think if someone went striaght up to anyone an began to beat them up an literally pummel them, then you should just block an run like hell. I have never lost a fight, but does that mean what I used to do was right? Nope, it only caused more unneeded crap. Point is not to hang out with crazy people.

[OceanEyes28]

I'd like to see an end to the trolling and possible flaming in this thread. rJ posted a question, post your thoughts in response. Don't attack him. Debate the opinion. The same goes for rJ.

OnOneRyder, rJ, Lover Boy: Your posts really stuck out to me. But Lover Boy, I will address your post because it's recent. The reason I'm calling out your post is not because of your opinion. But calling people who differ in opinion "dumbasses" is flamebaiting. I would like to ask that no one flame him in return so you stay out of trouble. Lover Boy, please tone it down. Consider this a pre-warning because you also know the rules. And I know you're capable of some kind of tact.

Setzer, if you didn't issue OnOneRyder a pre-warning, I will. It's only fair. rJ didn't flame without being flamebaited.

I will issue warnings if this continues. And I would reeeaaally prefer not to, and I would also prefer to not close this thread.

Please be civil to one another.

[OnOneRyder]

It's ok OceanEyes28, I still love ya even though you give me an unfair warning

Loverboy brings up a good point, equality. But doesn't everyone EQUALLY have the right to not get hit/pushed/touched regardless of what the circumstances are? I know it's kind of cheesy, but it is true.

I personally would never lay a hand on a girl during regular circumstances. It would have to something of the extreme like her coming at me with the intentions of killing me in which case said BITCH would be choking on her own teeth. Yes there are times when it is appropriate to hit a girl, but they are few and far between. Being at a bar and having beer poured on you is NOT one of them. (I realize you didn't hit her then rJ)

[OceanEyes28]

It's a pre-warning, you silly goose. Just be nice, and all is well.

Hmm. Girl hitting. Well, yes, I'd prefer if some guy didn't punch me in the face, but I suppose I've never gone batshit crazy on anyone either.

For a girl my size, I'm... pretty strong, I guess. I love that qualifier at the beginning of that too. And sometimes, I get into wrestle fights with say.... the boyfriend. We play fight. And it's fun, I like it. It wouldn't be fun if he just sat there. But at the same time, it's nice to know that he would never hit me out of anger, and if he hurts me on accident (haha that sounds so dysfunctional. "He still loves me, it was an accident!"), he apologizes until it gets obnoxious. At the same time, I don't think I've ever actually tried to hurt him.

Baaaasically, if I don't hit some guy and knock him to the floor, I don't expect to be hit and knocked to the floor either.

EDIT: Actually, I just checked, and Setzer already pre-warned you, OOR. So.... no pre-warning from me needed! But Lover Boy is still pre'd. That is all.

[Lover Boy]

Also, you people ain't dumbasses.

I was just alarmed at how RJ asked a question and seemed to get jumped on by every breathing thing in the thread.

Moving on.

Sure we should all live in peace and harmony, but that doesn't happen. And my assertation that a woman seeking equal treatment should not be alarmed if she is beset by a reaction that a male would deliver to another male is on topic and just that, an assertation.

EDIT: The statement "Lover Boy is pre'd" sticks out as weird. Not because I am at risk for warnzors, but.... it just... sounds dirty.

I need a new signiture.

[ToroMor]

I know some "girls" that would beat the living hell out of you if they have a bad day and you get on their nerves. And I am not exaggerating at all. They can bench far more than I can. And they could easily rape you until you cry like a baby.
Now ask yourself: would you want that?

As far as I'm concerned: bitches like Chez should be permanently slapped on the ass

[OnOneRyder]

they could easily rape you until you cry like a baby.

Now ask yourself: would you want that?

Yes, yes and yes. I'd like nothing more than to be some chicks sex slave. Thank you come again.

[ToroMor]

Originally Posted by OnOneRyder

Yes, yes and yes. I'd like nothing more than to be some chicks sex slave. Thank you come again.

I seriously doubt that you would say that knowing them. Anyway I agree hahahaha

[Tiffany]

Originally Posted by Lover Boy

I was just alarmed at how RJ asked a question and seemed to get jumped on by every breathing thing in the thread.

Did your spidey-senses start tingling? Holy rusted roofs Batman, a TFF'er is getting ganged up on!

lol, kidding, kidding. Couldn't help myself when I saw that part of your post.

Anyways, yeah I can appreciate not wanting someone to get ganged up on, but I would have posted the same way if it was a girl trying to figure out ways to push/shove/hit a guy. I guess it's because I am not a violent person, where I'd want to find ways to be able to phsysically hit people. Or push them, or shove them. To me, trying to find ways like that, regardless of your gender is immature. Children lash out and hit things because they can't understand their feelings.

I'd like to think we all have more mental capacity than a 3 year old.


So yeah, at risk of sounding like a tree hugging hippy, I still think there's other ways than having to "slap a bitch" or whatever it was being called. lol!

[Lover Boy]

Hahahaha Tiff, You have no idea. I was 6 hours away from my house (and therefore my computer) and came home to defend DJ's honor.



What's all this about being a sex slave?

[Sean]

So....

I agree, sometimes a good push is in order. There are some seriously crazy bitches out there, and walking away just doesn't work.

Not to play the race card, but, well, I am going to play the race card.

90% of the black bitches I've come across are that crazy, or the white ones who think they're black.