anubis505

(I think this topic goes here, unsure. Someone can move it if it doesn't go here.)

I've noticed that everyone claims to have a Girl Friend or Boy Friend. I really don't care, it's there life, unless the person they were with was dangerous or abusive, I would at least say something. Though that's not my point.

People have told me they had a Boy/Girl Friend in 5th grade. That they were dating in Grade School. They may believe it's a Boy/Girl Friend, but that is way too young to even be thinking about that. I find teenagers and kids are throwing away their childhoods, where you sit outside all day pretending your saving the world or something. I mean most kids do that when young. But instead they worry about dating. A Boy or Girl Friend is some one you love and should want to be with for... life and perhaps marry. Is that not what a Boy/Girl Friend is? Please explain your views on that when posting.

It seems everyone is confusing a good friend or a close friend with a Boy/Girl Friend. One month you say your "dating" this Girl and the next your looking for a girl to go out with. That's not even a friendship. Basically I'm saying people claims that if they have a friend of the opposite gender it is their Girl/Boy Friend in which they are dating. But can they say they love that person and mean it? I understand young adults have true Girl/Boy Friends, loving each other, but Middle Schoolers, Grade school? That isn't so...

So what is love? Do you believe that people tend to falsly claim they have a Girl/Boy Friend when truthfully it's just a good/close friend, or perhaps just someone they're using? Post your views, mine are pretty clear.